Monday, January 14, 2013

Happy Birthday - again...

Many January babies I known of. My BFF Phyllis, my dad, my 2 SILs, Poly friend LQ.

On Sunday, we went Tse Tho Aum temple to pray Daddy with his favourite Durian. We did not bring the physical fruit but premium durian puffs from emicakes. Mum bought a new shirt for Daddy too. Everytime seeing his photo on that tablet makes me tears. Till date I still can't accept the fact he's gone. But yet it's coming to 1 year soon! Time really flies!


At night we celebrated my 2 SILs advance birthday at our humble house because we did not want to bring the sick kids out. One on 16th, the other on 19th. The former birthday girl got herself a purple Aleoca 20" Specifiche foladable bike as gifts from us. The latter's present still in searching mode.

Da bao Tzi Char food

The birthday girls! Cake from Pinegarden, cupcakes from Twelve Cupcakes

The chio purple foldable bike
Saturday, January 12, 2013

Happy birthday!

Had an advance birthday celebration cum sec friends gathering today. Although I shouldn't be going out and throwing 2 sick kids and an active toddler with Hui at home, I cannot miss this outing which was planned weeks back. The last we had a gathering was like 1year+++ ago!

So I took a 7 hours time-off with Hui and headed out to Orchard Central Tonkichi restaurant to meet up with them at 1+pm

We ate and chatted till 3+pm and proceed to TCC at Centrepoint for another round of chatting. We need some cakes for the birthday girl!



Daddy birthday falls on the same day as Phyllis. If he is still around, he will be celebrating his 七十大寿!

Happy birthday, Dad! You are still deeply miss....
Monday, January 07, 2013

ECA's progress

EC had been more independent since went school. Since early last year, they can remove and wear their clothes themselves without us helping anymore. Morning wakeup (depending on their mood), they can tidy their own bed and fold their blanket. They also learnt to brush their teeth themselves now both morning and before sleep.

Lately, they learnt to bathe themselves too! On the tap, stand under the shower head, put on shampoo and body wash, scrub scrub scrub, wash away the soap, off the tab, shout for daddy or mummy to check if they are clean before wiping off the water with towel and wear clothes themselves. This is a new and good progress as it save us more time to do other things while they are bathing themselves!

Going to childcare does have pro and cons. Apart from being sick more often due to longer exposure to other kids who are sick in school, the independence skills they learnt in school outweigh the cons.

The toughest thing to let them learn now is to wean off diaper at night! So far had been very unsuccessful as they often pee out while asleep! By hook or by crook, they had to be totally off diapers by Jun this year. That's my target for them!

Andre is learning things really fast at 17 months now. He can walk well now and even run. He loves to copy what his sisters do and say. He likes to give alot of funny and cute expression. His speech is better than his sisters at this age. He can talk clearly in broken sentences and two syllabus words too. All thanks to his sisters! His favourite and known words are:

-Eat (#1 in list! Cant stop eating!)
-I want (everything also he want!)
-Papa (favourite person)
-Mama or mummy (finally he can call me! He learnt mummy from his sisters!)
-Scared scared (often patting his chest when he said this)
-Hi (learnt from 'Baby I can read' vcd)
-Bye (always loud and clear and waving his hand when he said this)
-Gai gai (super excited when we are near the door)
- pant (love wearing pants, duno y)
-shoe (something he seldom wear coz he got no control outside when shoe is on him and letting him down to walk! Pa Pa Zao!)
- Nice (every food into his mouth he will feedback with 'nice'!)
- you go (with the action pushing you away)
- bubble (gets excited like his sisters when they are playing bubbles)
- shh shh or poo poo (will point to his diapers especially now he will tell inform us when he poo and want us change his diapers)
....
Many others which I can't think of right now.

I should start signing him up for enrichment classes since he can absorb and learnt things fast at this stage now.
Sunday, January 06, 2013

Darling Princesses Turn FOUR! - Old post

Saw this post that was drafted but not posted..So here it goes...

Had a mini celebration with them in their childcare this year. Their first birthday celebration in a school environment. It's also their first no-party with relatives & Daddy/Mummy's friends this year. The school party was also almost-never-make-it due to their grandfather passed away less than 100 days. Mummy didn't want to disappoint them of having totally no birthday cake this year. So I came out with all sorts of excuses and reasons and manage to persuade my mum to let them hold a mini one in school only. Ofcourse with the girls trying to act pitiful infront of my mum and crying and shouting say they want to have a princess party in school, my mum nod her head! Ok, our evil plans works!

So I started searching for goodie bags and birthday cake beginning of May. Andre's birthday plannings were then stopped for a month so I can focus on the princesses' mini party. But since we are not gona celebrate among relatives, we shall plan something among ourselves.

On 26th Saturday morning 10+am, we brought ECA to SengKang swimming pool. As usual the girls enjoyed lots. But Andre was very scared and refused to dip into the pool. Left the pool at almost 12pm and head to McD for lunch. Reached home by 2pm to prepared Andre's porridge for dinner while the girls took their afternoon nap. Evening we brought MIL out for dinner at Pasta De Waraku@Airport. Reached home at 10+pm and I startd to feel feverish!

On 27th Sunday, we had plan to go Marina Barrage to fly kite and picnic. End up stayed home the whole day as I was down with fever and the sky was gloomy!

On 28th Monday, I was on MC but felt much better. Hui already took leave this day and so we brought ECA out to AmazoniaFun@Great World City for the girls to get Wild! It's another new indoor playground for them to explore. They have a section for the young toddlers which Andre can has his share of fun too. Left the place 2 hours later to head for lunch. After lunch, we went to pick my mum up and head to Vivocity for dinner and shopping.
Happy 4th Birthday, my precious princesses!

Year 2012

My last post stop at the saddest moment in my life till date. The losing of my beloved daddy had made the whole of 2012 the worst year in my past 31 years of life on earth. My greatest regret is not seeing him the last time before he shut down his body system. This regret will accompany me till I leave this world. Let's look back to some significant events in year 2012...

26th Feb, the pass away of Daddy dearest.
28th July, Prince Andre's 1st year birthday party.
11th-17th Nov, family vacation to Australia Gold Coast.
16th-25th Dec, plenty of Xmas parties to attend.
22nd Dec, 1st trip to Malaysia Legoland via self-drive. Later Hui got addicted and did a few more self-drive to Malaysia for shopping and dinner.

That's all that I could conclude for year 2012. A bad sad year.

Year 2013, resolution? I want to change job/role! I want spent more time with my family instead of all the irritating night conference calls! Especially I see more coming this year with the extra workload I am assigned. Getting to hate this role even with the appreciation and praises by boss.

An ex-colleague once told me: If you are not being motivated or happy even after the apprecations/promotion/awards given, it's time to move. Yes, this is what happening to me now. I only complain and complain to Hui about my job. Even boss specially wrote emails to show appreciation of my work, I still hate this job. My motivation and drive to excel in my role is gone with the wind...It's really time to MOVE!